Star's T* SO Page

Personal Stuff

I'm Published!!! in Trans Forming Families Now available at Amazon
My Transgender Page

National Resources

Rainbow Trail
Partners of Crossdressers
SPICE Spouses and Partners International Conference for Education
Spice is a conference which focuses on the attributes, affects, consequences and coping skills needed when women or men are confronted with and attempting to adjust to the phenomenon of crossdressing in their Significant Other. ABSOLUTELY NO CROSSDRESSING IS ALLOWED at SPICE.
PFLAG Transgender Network
A Publication of the Transgender Network of Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG)
SOFFA Resources
Significant Others, Friends, Families, and Allies for FtM (most also deal with MtF SOFFAs)
Straight Spouse Network
International support network of heterosexual women and men, formerly or currently partnered with gay, lesbian, bisexual, or transgendered mates.

Articles of Importance

A Wives Bill of Rights by SPICE
Even Genetic Girls Get the Blues
The advantages of a SO support group, and some answers to often asked questions.
Surgical Procedures
Detailed explination with illustrations, NO PHOTOS
Butches and FTMs; a Uniquely Femme Perspective

Significant Others Links

SOtS forum
Discussion group
SOFFA links
ALuckyWife's home page
TG SO Forum
Stories from many differnt SO's Mine is a bit outdated.
When you Love the one you're with
CDS Bookstore Couples Issues
Various books about being partnered with a TG
Yvonne's Partner's Corner
Collection of articles
The Couples' Network
Vanessa & Linda Kaye

TG Friends and Partners - Personal Web Pages

Cyndi

Family sites

Depend
A UK organisation offering free, confidential and non-judgemental advice, information and support to all family members, spouses, partners and friends of transsexual people.
MerMaids
A UK group to support gender variant children & teens and their families. Helpful Hints for Familes and Carers
COLAGE Children of Lesbians and Gays Everywhere
COLAGE is the best (well okay, the only) support and advocacy organization for daughters and sons of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender parents.
Trans Familiy in Cleveland Ohio

E-mail lists

TGSO1 SO only list (no T* folk)
This is a 5-20 message a day list for female partners only. I've been on this list a few times but it is to high volume for me. Sometimes this list can get pretty bitter, but it is a great place for those that need a place to process how accepting they are. Members on the list cover the entire spectrum of acceptance.
CD SO list
For partners of heterosexual crossdressers only
Trans and Partners
A forum for supporting each other through the transition process and discussing issues concerning transition both as it affects the trans partner as well as the non-trans partner.
TgPartners
SO only list, low volume, mostly supportive. This is the list I am on. Info Page
TransIssues
This is a forum for the husbands, wives, life partners and significant others of persons in the transgender community- transexuals, transgendered, intrasexed, etc.- regardless of anyone's sexual orientation. Safe Space for spouses.
PFLAG-talk and TGS-PFLAG offer support to friends & family of GLB and T* folk
I also have a Transgender page

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Updated August 5, 2003
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